Domestic violence victim advocates believe prevention starts with kids: “Need to understand the root cause”

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MILWAUKEE -- The numbers are staggering. One in four women will experience domestic violence. In Milwaukee, victim advocates are trying to find out why. The key may be targeting the youngest victims.

A moment of silence Wednesday, October 26th marked the end of a month-long campaign to raise awareness of domestic violence at the Sojourner Family Peace Center -- a resource center and safe haven for victims.

Sojourner Family Peace Center

"To honor those who`ve been killed, to remember those who`ve survived, and to celebrate those who have been doing the work day in and day out," Carmen Pitre, Sojourner president and CEO said.

Sojourner serves 9,500 clients each year.

"We believe we`re only scratching the surface of those who are suffering in our community," Pitre said.

Domestic violence victim advocates believe preventing domestic violence starts with kids.

Sojourner Family Peace Center

Sojourner Family Peace Center

Sojourner Family Peace Center

Sojourner Family Peace Center

Carmen Pitre

"We need to think about preventing it before it happens. We need to understand and know the root causes of violence," Patti Seger with End Domestic Abuse Wisconsin said.

"Most of the people that come in front of me as defendants, if I ask them they suffered some type of abuse themselves as a child or they witnessed domestic violence in their homes, that`s very common," Judge Jeffrey Kremers said.

It's a cycle these advocates hope to break -- one critical conversation at a time.

Experts say the biggest thing they want victims to know is that there is a way out.

Related resources

LINKS: Helpful resources for those affected by domestic violence

Sojourner Family Peace Center 24-hour domestic violence hotline: 414-933-2722

Milwaukee Women's Center hotline numbers: 
24-Hour Crisis Line:  (414) 671-6140
Domestic Violence Hotline:  (414) 933-2722
National Domestic Violence Hotline:  (800) 799-SAFE

Emergency shelter for domestic violence victims:
Milwaukee Women’s Center’s Shelter:  (414) 671-6140
Sojourner Family Peace Center   (414) 933-2722
Waukesha Women’s Center   (262) 542-3828

Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence

End Domestic Abuse Wisconsin

1 Comment

  • Shaun Blasier (@SaltyShaun)

    I grew up in a home that was World War 3. Being eldest of 4 younger brothers and sisters, i learned to lock my brothers and sisters in my bedroom with a radio playing loud when my Parents decided to beat each other up. They couldn’t see nor hear first hand what was happening between my parents. I suffer Batterer’s Syndrome plus have Bipolar and Borderline Personality Disorder because of the violence, my brothers and sisters suffered none of these symptoms and have never attempted to “batter” their loved ones. The parental violence has to end with the beginning a new generation and that new generation has to see a resolving of the issue that started the violence, they have to see that no matter how much People may argue, that it will settle peacefully if not in agreement with each other–we all don’t get along with each perfectly. If we have hard time getting along with our brothers and sisters, I don’t know what would make People think that they can get along better with a stranger that they love also and choose to live with.

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